Now if you're asking this question you know down have a gut feeling something is not right and you either are in denial or you can't really put your finger on it but something feels different with your relationship.
You will be glad to know that many affairs you think are happening are actually just misread signs however on occasions affairs do happen and you may well need some support to get you through this difficult period.
Common Signs That May Suggest An Affair
- Is your partner more secretive with their phone calls or emails?
- Do they no longer take their phone with them when they are with you?
- Have they recently started clearing their history folder of their internet searches?
- Are they working more frequently however becoming more difficult to get a hold of by telephone?
- Has a new friend or hobby suddenly taking up a lot more of their time?
- Are they working away from home more frequently?
- Are your credit cards bills being hidden from you?
- Does there seem to be less money in your bank accounts?
- Are the phone bills suddenly being handled by them and you do not see the numbers being calls?
- Has your partner suddenly take to dressing better or taking more interest in their appearance?
- Is your partner paying less attention to you, may be less affectionate or passionate?
So do not jump to conclusions, changing partner could radically alter your life. A change me be the right thing, it may be something you can work through, it may you have just misread the signs and you need an intuitive perspective. However when you are not really sure the best advise is seek as second opinion then talk to your partner.
Discovering that your partner is having a fling or affair is a shock to most.
ReplyDeleteYou can get depressed, angry, violent, or in general freak out.
But perhaps, depending on your personal history and beliefs the following may apply.
What if you take it as a test, or better yet an invitation from the universe for you to look deep into yourself, your beliefs about relationships with-yourself and your love ones, an invitation to grow and change?
What would happen when you can do this?
Would you love your self more? Would you be a better person?
What if you were further? Like 20 years older and wiser (not just older)?
What if your reaction is what is so great about this problem?
And even do this with a calmness that is more that you ever had?
Would you want to be that person?
By Bounzup